Mulligan

Golf ball on green grass, symbolizing a Mulligan or second chance

Golf gave the world a gracious word: Mulligan. Like a lot of good stories, there are several versions of how the word came to be. Golf historians still debate the true origin. My favorite traces back to a golfer named David Mulligan in Montreal during the 1920’s. The story goes that after hitting a poor … Read more

A Man’s Word

Michael G Ethridge, publisher of The Kendall Gentleman, Boerne, Texas

There are a few things a man can lose and still recover. Money can be made again. A job can be replaced. A bad season can pass. Even a reputation, if the damage wasn’t too deep, can sometimes be rebuilt with enough time, humility, and proof. But integrity is different. When a man loses that, … Read more

BetterMENt: Rebuilding from the Rubble of Moral Failure

Image representing moral failure and rebuilding character for BetterMENt column, Boerne Kendall County

Dennis Postiglione Rebuilding from the Rubble of Moral Failure A person’s life can instantly fracture due to betrayal, addiction, dishonesty, rage, cowardice, or self-destruction. We all make mistakes and accumulate regrets over time. That is part of being human. Some decisions, however, are life-altering and well beyond the scope of a simple mistake. Few people … Read more

The Signature We Leave

American flags and Fourth of July patriotism, publisher's note on stewardship and legacy in Kendall County

The Signature We Leave By the time this issue reaches your hands, Independence Day will be just around the corner. Across Kendall County, flags will be flying. Families will gather around backyard smokers and picnic tables. Children will wave sparklers long after sunset, and somewhere over the Hill Country, fireworks will light up the summer … Read more

Find a Way: The Making of Jordan Ballin

Portrait of Jordan Ballin standing with arms crossed under dramatic blue and amber lighting, featured as the cover story subject for The Kendall Gentleman.

In Kendall County, people don’t hand out respect easily. They’ll notice talent. They’ll show up on a Friday night and watch a kid throw it, hit it, or run past everybody on the field. But respect is a different transaction. It takes time, and it usually comes down to one question that nobody asks out … Read more

Maybe So

Horses walking through a fog-covered pasture at sunrise, symbolizing patience, perspective, and the quiet unfolding of life’s seasons.

I was introduced to this story years ago by a dear family friend, Jackie Cargill. Jackie was one of those steady people every town hopes to have…thoughtful, respected, and committed to making things better. In Brownfield, he served in leadership in many ways, and on April 29, 1997, while serving as Development Director, he wrote … Read more

What You Do Next

Michael G. Ethridge standing inside a welding shop beneath a sign reading “The Best Welders In The World Pass Through This Shop,” reflecting craftsmanship, discipline, and leadership.

There’s a certain kind of lie a man tells himself that doesn’t sound like a lie at all. It sounds responsible. It sounds patient. It sounds like he’s thinking things through. He tells himself that once things settle down, once the schedule opens up, once the timing is right, that’s when he’ll get serious. About … Read more

The Moment Someone Needs to Speak

Portrait of Michael G Ethridge standing beside a tree outdoors.

No one writes headlines about the countless ordinary decisions where someone quietly insisted on doing things the right way.  There is a moment that shows up in almost every room. It happens in board meetings, classrooms, family conversations, and small-town committee gatherings. The discussion moves along normally enough until someone says something that makes the … Read more

Bill Whitworth and the Quiet Work That Holds a County Together

William “Bill” Whitworth standing on his Sisterdale ranch with cattle and sheep in Kendall County, Texas

There are men whose names end up etched into stone, and there are men whose work becomes so foundational that no one remembers who laid it in the first place. William “Bill” Whitworth belongs firmly in the latter group. His life does not read like a résumé. It reads like a ledger. Work done. Responsibility … Read more