The Erosion Nobody Notices Until It’s Too Late

Portrait of The Kendall Gentleman publisher standing outdoors in the Texas Hill Country at sunset wearing a cowboy hat

Erosion is quiet. It doesn’t show up all at once. It doesn’t kick the door in or make a scene. Most of the time, you don’t even notice it happening. Things still work. Mostly. They just don’t work the way they used to. A fence leans a little more every year. A gate doesn’t close … Read more

BetterMENt: The Importance of Dialogue

Two well-dressed men seated in a lounge having a thoughtful conversation over coffee, representing mentorship, leadership, and personal growth

By Dale Adams One stereotype of men is that we don’t talk much.  While that is a major overgeneralization, we do sometimes focus more on doing rather than connecting. And when we do connect, conversation may not be as prominent as when women interact.  I think this comes from our goal focus and hunting drive.  … Read more

Serving Where It Feels Like Home

Officer Cody Shelton standing in uniform in front of a Boerne Police Department patrol vehicle in Texas.

For Officer Cody Shelton, service has never been about the spotlight. It has always been about showing up when it matters most, often when no one is watching and no one is keeping score. Shelton grew up in Quincy, Illinois, a small, close knit community where relationships and accountability mattered. When he later arrived in … Read more

Mountain Laurel

Mountain Laurel tree blooming with deep purple flowers in early spring near a home in Texas.

It was sometime around 1995 when my former next-door neighbor, Joe Fuller, gave me a nudge that would end up shaping the next season of our lives. We’d been living nearly ten years in our first home at Cibolo Crossing – a classic starter house that had done its job well. It sheltered us, gave … Read more

BetterMENt: Stronger Together: On Pain, Reflection, and the Quiet Strength of Interdependence 

An outstretched hand symbolizing quiet strength, vulnerability, and healthy interdependence among men

By: Paul Stephenson, M.A., LPC Genesis Counseling Center The places in life that compel the most reflection are often associated with pain. Contemporary life, perhaps more so than ancient life – or perhaps this is simply what Socrates meant when he warned against the unexamined life. Either way, pain has a way of slowing us down. It interrupts momentum, … Read more

Faith and Service: Sheriff Al Auxier

Kendall County Sheriff Al Auxier stands confidently with arms crossed, wearing his uniform and cowboy hat, symbolizing faith and servant leadership.

For Kendall County Sheriff Al Auxier, the badge has never been about authority. It has always been about service to God, to community, and to the men and women who stand beside him. His journey into law enforcement began nearly forty years ago and continues today, guided by the same principles that first led him … Read more

From the Director of Photography

U.S. Army combat medic Jonathan Mallard during deployment in Baghdad, Iraq, 2005, photographed in uniform holding a rifle.

Telling the stories of Kendall County men has been one of the greatest privileges of my life. Each assignment reminds me of the strength, humility, and faith that define this community. Whether I am photographing a veteran, a public servant, or a neighbor who simply loves well, I see the character that holds this place … Read more

Service and Science: Dr. David Wampler

Dr. David Wampler, licensed paramedic and educator, photographed in uniform representing Hope for Heroes Texas.

For Dr. David Wampler, the road to emergency medicine was never a straight one, but it is one he is grateful for every day. Raised in San Antonio, Wampler grew up loving the outdoors and serving others. As a Boy Scout, he developed an early fascination with first aid, lifesaving, and lifeguarding, skills that would … Read more

BetterMENt: The Power of Our Word

Two men in suits shaking hands, symbolizing integrity, trust, and the strength of keeping one’s word.

We are all familiar with the phrase “A man’s word is his bond”. It means that a person’s word, their spoken promise, represents a sacred obligation. We trust them to keep it, and we see it as a binding commitment. The phrase embodies the timeless principles of integrity, trustworthiness, and reliability. By living into “Our Word” with … Read more

We Do What We Want

Portrait of Coach Stan Leech in a black suit and striped tie, smiling confidently against a black backdrop.

I once heard a simple line that stopped me cold. As the saying goes, “We do what we want to do, and we don’t do what we don’t want to do.” At first, it made me laugh—it sounded like something someone might say to justify skipping a meeting or leaving a party early, but the … Read more