Still Standing: The Scott Carlson Story

Scott Carlson of Boerne Texas, July 2026 cover subject of The Kendall Gentleman

STILL STANDING The Scott Carlson Story The first thing you notice about Scott Carlson is that he still carries himself like a firefighter. Even sitting in a chair on the back porch of his Boerne home on a warm May afternoon, there’s a certain alertness about him. Broad shoulders. Thick hands. The posture of a … Read more

BetterMENt: Rebuilding from the Rubble of Moral Failure

Image representing moral failure and rebuilding character for BetterMENt column, Boerne Kendall County

Dennis Postiglione Rebuilding from the Rubble of Moral Failure A person’s life can instantly fracture due to betrayal, addiction, dishonesty, rage, cowardice, or self-destruction. We all make mistakes and accumulate regrets over time. That is part of being human. Some decisions, however, are life-altering and well beyond the scope of a simple mistake. Few people … Read more

Maybe So

Horses walking through a fog-covered pasture at sunrise, symbolizing patience, perspective, and the quiet unfolding of life’s seasons.

I was introduced to this story years ago by a dear family friend, Jackie Cargill. Jackie was one of those steady people every town hopes to have…thoughtful, respected, and committed to making things better. In Brownfield, he served in leadership in many ways, and on April 29, 1997, while serving as Development Director, he wrote … Read more

Serving Where It Feels Like Home

Officer Cody Shelton standing in uniform in front of a Boerne Police Department patrol vehicle in Texas.

For Officer Cody Shelton, service has never been about the spotlight. It has always been about showing up when it matters most, often when no one is watching and no one is keeping score. Shelton grew up in Quincy, Illinois, a small, close knit community where relationships and accountability mattered. When he later arrived in … Read more

BetterMENt: Stronger Together: On Pain, Reflection, and the Quiet Strength of Interdependence 

An outstretched hand symbolizing quiet strength, vulnerability, and healthy interdependence among men

By: Paul Stephenson, M.A., LPC Genesis Counseling Center The places in life that compel the most reflection are often associated with pain. Contemporary life, perhaps more so than ancient life – or perhaps this is simply what Socrates meant when he warned against the unexamined life. Either way, pain has a way of slowing us down. It interrupts momentum, … Read more

Watering Your Own Grass

Portrait of Coach Stan Leech in a black suit and striped tie, smiling confidently against a black backdrop.

In spring 1989, coach Terry Morris taught the importance of “blooming where you’re planted,” emphasizing that fulfillment isn’t found in better circumstances but in embracing one’s current situation. Easter symbolizes transformation from within, reminding us that life can flourish even in hardships. Trusting God’s plan allows us to experience renewal daily.

Faith & Leadership: Work Heartily, as for the Lord

Portrait of Coach Stan Leech in a black suit and striped tie, smiling confidently against a black backdrop.

As March Madness unfolds, basketball fans everywhere agonize over brackets that inevitably unravel by the first weekend. It’s a season that reminds us of the unpredictability of competition and the importance of perspective. And yet, amid the chaos of missed shots and buzzer-beaters, valuable life lessons emerge—not just about basketball, but about life itself. In … Read more