Publisher Note: Thank A Veteran

Michael G. Ethridge, publisher of The Kendall Gentleman, photographed outdoors in Boerne, Texas, for his November 2025 “Thank a Veteran” message.

Every November, we set aside a day to honor the men and women who have worn our nation’s uniform. But for most of us, gratitude should not be something we circle on a calendar. It should be part of how we live. Both of my grandfathers were veterans, and three of my four grandparents worked … Read more

The Strength of Stillness

Silhouette of a cowboy in a wide-brimmed hat at sunset, symbolizing stillness and reflection.

October settles over Kendall County like a quilt. The mornings begin to carry that crisp air we’ve been waiting for, the trees start to hint at turning, and you can smell fires drifting from backyards and campsites. Football fills the evenings, deer blinds are cleaned and stocked, and the calendar fills with fall festivals, church … Read more

Ken Nietenhoefer: The Voice of Local Tradition

Ken Nietenhoefer stands outdoors by a wooden fence, wearing a blue checkered shirt and glasses, featured in The Kendall Gentleman cover story.

Ken Nietenhoefer likes to say he’s lived six different lives. He even wrote them down once, in a manuscript he calls My 6 Lives. But listening to him tell it, those chapters don’t sit neatly side by side. They stack on each other, like wood grain running through a beam, all adding up to the … Read more

The Men Beside You

Michael G. Ethridge stands by a wooden fence at sunset, wearing a cowboy hat and patterned shirt, looking directly into the camera with a serious expression.

Most men I know aren’t looking for applause. They’ve got families to care for, work to do, and burdens they rarely speak aloud. That’s the part we often miss. Not because we’re too proud to ask for help, but because somewhere along the way, we started believing we were supposed to carry it all alone. … Read more

Teaching the Unwritten Lessons: Manners, Grit, and Grace in a Modern World

Michael Ethridge stands along a quiet country road in Kendall County, Texas, reflecting on the values of grit, grace, and gentlemanly character.

Some lessons aren’t written in books. They aren’t found in classrooms, and they don’t come with degrees or gold stars. They’re passed down in quiet moments—on porches, in pickup trucks, or at the dinner table—when a father or mentor looks a boy in the eye and says, “This is how a man does it.” They’re … Read more

Harvesting Legacy: Andy Ivankovich’s Mission of Service and Strength

“Andy Ivankovich at Singing Water Vineyards in Comfort, Texas, with a bottle of Freedom red wine and a glass on the tasting room bar.”

When Andy Ivankovich first drove down Mill Dam Road in Comfort, Texas, he wasn’t looking for a vineyard. Truth is, he’d never even tasted Texas wine. What he sought was just a quiet slice of the Hill Country, somewhere to clear brush on weekends with his kids and let his mind rest from years of … Read more

Ride for the Brand: Cody Davenport’s Mission of Legacy and Loyalty

Cody Davenport leans casually on a fence, smiling with a cowboy hat in hand and dressed in denim.

Cody Davenport isn’t the kind of CEO who spends his days behind a desk, distant from the work that drives the heart of his organization. Instead, the leader of the San Antonio Stock Show & Rodeo is a hands-on, boots-in-the-dirt Texan who can often be found alongside volunteers, loading livestock, or training with his staff … Read more

A Gentleman’s Code: What It Still Means to Be a Man

Michael G. Ethridge stands at a wooden fence in the Texas Hill Country, wearing a cowboy hat and a thoughtful expression.

July is when the flags come out – on porches, in parades, on the backs of pickup trucks heading to river crossings and backyard cookouts. We celebrate independence, grit, and a country built by men who weren’t afraid to work hard, speak plainly, and live by conviction. So it seems like the right time to … Read more

Publisher’s Note: Why We Celebrate: The Importance of Remembering Who We Are

Michael G. Ethridge, publisher of The Kendall Gentleman, in a red and blue flannel shirt, pictured against a dark background with dramatic studio lighting.

June in Kendall County means summer is in full swing—sunlit evenings, community celebrations, and the welcome hum of tradition echoing down Main Street. And there’s no better reflection of that spirit than Das Festival of Kendall. As one of its founding board members, I’ve had the privilege of seeing this event grow from an idea … Read more

The Legacy of Service: Collins Martin

Collins Martin standing with arms crossed in front of a firetruck, wearing a green shirt and Texas cap, photographed for The Kendall Gentleman.

Born in San Antonio to a family deeply rooted in military tradition, Collins Martin’s life is a testament to service, perseverance, and an unwavering commitment to community. His father and maternal grandfather both served in the U.S. Air Force, and when his grandfather retired as a Lieutenant Colonel in the late 1960s, he established a … Read more