Michael G. Ethridge standing on a balcony in Kendall County holding a cigar

The Pursuit of Purpose: Why Men Seek to Leave a Legacy

As the seasons change and the world around us bursts into life, I find myself reflecting on the concept of purpose. It’s a topic that resonates with many of us, especially as we navigate the responsibilities of work, family, and community. There’s something almost primal about the need to create, to build, and to leave something lasting—a legacy that endures long after we’re gone.

For generations, men have been driven by the desire to make a mark, whether it’s through craftsmanship, leadership, or simply being a steadfast presence for their families. It’s not just about personal success or recognition; it’s about creating a ripple effect that positively impacts others.

At The Kendall Gentleman, we often celebrate the artisans, craftsmen, and community leaders who embody this pursuit of purpose. From the dedicated blacksmith who passes down his skills to a new generation, to the father who coaches Little League not just to teach the game, but to instill character and resilience, these stories are everywhere in our community.

In Kendall County, I see countless examples of men who invest their time and effort into building something that lasts. Whether it’s constructing physical structures that will stand for decades, or building relationships that foster growth and support, their work is a testament to a deeper motivation. It’s about legacy—not in the sense of wealth or fame, but in the lives touched and the lessons passed on.

One local figure who embodies this pursuit is Dorman Vick, a welding instructor at Samuel V. Champion High School. For nearly two decades, Dorman has shaped young lives, instilling both technical skills and life lessons. His story, like so many others, is a reminder that purpose often emerges from the desire to better others’ lives, not just our own.

This drive to leave a legacy is something I think about often. In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to lose sight of the long game. We’re bombarded with messages about instant gratification, yet the most meaningful accomplishments often take years of dedication. Whether you’re teaching your son to change a tire, mentoring a young entrepreneur, or volunteering at a local event, these moments of guidance and support are what shape the next generation.

As we step into May, let’s take a moment to reflect on our own pursuits of purpose. What are we building? What values are we instilling in those who come after us? In the end, it’s not just about what we accomplish, but about who we inspire along the way.

Thank you for being a part of this journey with The Kendall Gentleman. I hope that this issue, like those before it, serves as a reminder to build something lasting—not just for ourselves, but for our community and the generations to come.

Until next time,

Michael G. Ethridge

Publisher, The Kendall Gentleman